Years ago I remember Deacon Tom English, who has worked with the family members of murder victims, among others, commenting that these people have taught him that forgiveness is not a feeling, but a decision.  Once made, it is a decision that must be remade again and again, until over time the heart finally accepts what the head decided was right.   Even though most of us are never faced with forgiving another for causing the death of someone close to us, be it through murder, accident, or an act of war, deciding to forgive when we really don’t feel like it is extremely challenging for most of us.  How fortunate we have all of Lent to meditate on the first sentence of the Ash Wednesday collect.

As a child, I was pretty clear what money was.  It was the pennies, nickels, and dimes I put in my mite box.  It was the nickel it cost to buy a popsicle on a hot summer day.  It was the bills Mom pulled from her wallet to pay for groceries.  Once, on a frightening night on the highway in the Georgia swamps, it was a whole envelope of bills Mom tossed at me in the back seat, fearing we were about to be robbed, telling me to hide it.  For want of a better place, I stuffed the envelope under my sleeping six month old sister, figuring nobody would look there.  Nowadays, it’s a whole lot less clear to me what money is.

Partisan in-fighting, economic uncertainty, natural disasters, personal tragedies... Is it any wonder that a deep-seated malaise seems to have settled over the land?  It is impossible to pick up a newspaper, turn on the television, or go online without encountering bad news of some sort.   The wonder isn’t that so many people are chronically depressed, but rather how anyone can manage to be upbeat.  Don’t they have any problems?  Are they stupid?  Perhaps they simple view the world from a different perspective.